Tips On How to Get Your Ex Back

Sometimes when a relationship comes to an abrupt end, either one or both parties involved may still be in doubt that the end is really the end, and this is especially true when a relationship is new.

Here are some useful tips on how to get your ex back.

- There is always a second chance for everyone, so it's not impossible for you to get back together with your ex. But first, you should ask yourself some questions Do you still love them? Do you really want them back? Why? Are you trying to get them back because you don't want to be alone, or you don't believe you should have been dumped in the first place? If you are looking to get back with your ex for reasons other than love, you may be playing a dangerous game that would be better off avoided.

- Do not appear desperate or needy to your ex. Although you may feel desperate, and you may really want them back, you absolutely need to control your emotions, keeping them to yourself. If you cannot help the way you feel, then it may be wise to talk to your friends or family so you can cry your heart out where your ex cannot see.

- Learn how to control your feelings, forgetting about self pity and instead working on the positive aspects of working things through with your ex. If you appear too needy, or if you come across as too desperate, your ex may end up avoiding you even more.

- Keep the lines of communication with your ex open. The relationship may have ended, but you just need to make them feel like communication lines are open and that you want to be civil. You do not have to be the one initiating the conversation, but you should be willing to say hello and have a conversation occasionally, keeping in touch casually.

- Above all else, analyze what went wrong with the relationship. There must have been a problem that led to the end of the relationship, so find out what the problem was if you want to get back together with your ex. Find out what caused the arguments and work on rectifying those issues.

What Can I Do To Get My Ex Back?

Most people find themselves asking “What can I do to get my ex back?” following a breakup. They ask themselves “Is there anything I could have done differently?” Then they decide to write a letter saying how sorry they are or anything that they think may bring their ex back.

The first thing to do is not to think “what can I do to get my ex back?” but to make time to go out and make friends, relax, unwind and generally have some ‘Me Time’. The main thing is to do something that you enjoy. This will do you the world of good and stop you from ‘thinking’ all the time.

You need time to look at your relationship objectively and this is not possible without getting a break from constantly thinking about the relationship and beating yourself up over things you should or shouldn’t have done in order to make it work. This gives you time to decide what the next step is. What do you want from the relationship. Is it really worth saving? Is it what you really want?

Give it some time..

Do you still want to get back together with your ex? Do you want to now spread your wings? If you still want to get back together with your ex, you will need to find out how they are feeling and if it is what they want as well.

Do NOT beg your ex to come back.
Do NOT constantly telephone them.
Do NOT wait by the telephone for them to call.

Do KEEP yourself busy
Do MEET new people or go out with friends

If you decide that you want to get back with your ex you have to tread carefully. Don’t rush in without any prior thought. Play it cool.

Show your ex that you can survive on your own. Play hard to get. This will make your ex really think about the situation.

If you don’t rush, you will know whether it is the right time to get back with your ex. You will no longer ask “what can I do to get my ex back” You will already have your ex back!

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Do You Want Your Ex Back?

Do You Want Your Ex Back?

Fortunately I am happily married now, but it wasn't always that way. When you meet someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with, who you believe is your soul mate, it can be devastating when they decide they no longer want to be with you. That they need 'some space' etc.

This is exactly what happened to me. I'm afraid I didn't deal with it very well. I did everything wrong. I sunk into depression and decided there must be something 'wrong' with me and that was why we broke up. In desperation, I searched the internet for help and advice. It took me some time, but I found
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One of the most important tips in the ebook was to try and think clearly, decide if you REALLY want to get back with your ex or not. Not all relationships can be saved. But by keeping a clear head communication is improved giving you a better opportunity to get back with your ex. You can't hope to get back together if you can't have a proper conversation.

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That is really the starting point...

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How Do I Get My Ex To Return My Calls?

Did You Know?

There are certain 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your calls?
Sounds hard to believe, doesn't it?. But there ARE words that will cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions asked by many people just like you that are trying to put their relationships back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my calls?"

In the Magic Of Making Up there is a complete strategy clearly laid out for you.
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What NOT to Say!

Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.
and worse...
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.

1. PLEADING - Where the message sounds like
   "Please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
   
2. And the EMERGENCY-
   "This is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Can you see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

CURIOSITY & SELF INTEREST

And here's the BIG SECRET of how to use them. When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic.'

So...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

He will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?""What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the"Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...

BE SURE TO...

Have an underlying strategy like the one laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
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This video gives you a sample of the Magic Of Making Up

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you may do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

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