Most people find themselves asking “What can I do to get my ex back?” following a breakup. They ask themselves “Is there anything I could have done differently?” Then they decide to write a letter saying how sorry they are or anything that they think may bring their ex back.
The first thing to do is not to think “what can I do to get my ex back?” but to make time to go out and make friends, relax, unwind and generally have some ‘Me Time’. The main thing is to do something that you enjoy. This will do you the world of good and stop you from ‘thinking’ all the time.
You need time to look at your relationship objectively and this is not possible without getting a break from constantly thinking about the relationship and beating yourself up over things you should or shouldn’t have done in order to make it work. This gives you time to decide what the next step is. What do you want from the relationship. Is it really worth saving? Is it what you really want?
Give it some time..
Do you still want to get back together with your ex? Do you want to now spread your wings? If you still want to get back together with your ex, you will need to find out how they are feeling and if it is what they want as well.
Do NOT beg your ex to come back.
Do NOT constantly telephone them.
Do NOT wait by the telephone for them to call.
Do KEEP yourself busy
Do MEET new people or go out with friends
If you decide that you want to get back with your ex you have to tread carefully. Don’t rush in without any prior thought. Play it cool.
Show your ex that you can survive on your own. Play hard to get. This will make your ex really think about the situation.
If you don’t rush, you will know whether it is the right time to get back with your ex. You will no longer ask “what can I do to get my ex back” You will already have your ex back!
THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP
What Can I Do To Get My Girlfriend Back?
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VIVIAN
MY THANKS GOES TO SUNLIGHT DAUGTHER OF JAI MATA DURGA
2013 june my husband and i got divorce because he caught
me dancing with my ex in the club and kissing that day i
don't really kno what went wrong i was very drunk and my
eyes was dirty for sex but before i notice i was caught
right on his eyes kissing someone eles. 30th of june 2013
he divorced me and i thought maybe i could go back to my
ex but too late for me i never knew he was married and he
just hang out with me for his pleasure.life was miserable
to me as i don't know what to do. i went to my mom so i've
been staying with her, all of my sisters happy living with
their family but due to mistake i failed. few days ago i
wanted to chat with my friend emily then i saw rose ella
on facebook when i scrolled down to her wall i saw a comment
about sunlight so i added her as friends and was telling her
my experience if sunlight could help she told me her own as
ever worse but she help and that yes she could. she send me her
email and i did and i followed all the instructions she told me
after a while she told me she is done with it so i was about tellin
her how will he come,my hone rang when i pick the first words i here
was honey i am sorry i said who is this the caller to me daniel
your husband after 3yrs i can't realy believe it after he hangup 30mins
later he drove down and pick me for shopping that was the same day we
settled i am so happy right now my best friend is now ella rose we do
chat like sisters and someday she promised she could come to my place.
thnks mother sunlight readers of this if you are facing problems with
love or anything at all please here is sunlightspell for you contact
her now sunlightspell@gmail.com and watch her turn your sorrows to
blessings i thanks ma'am peace e unto you.
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